This week we had our annual review for our son's IEP meeting. It was not just any meeting, this meeting was his "articulation" meeting to high school. After 11 years in the special education system, we had reached the milestone of moving to high school and in our case going to a new district.
The theme of the meeting for us was to establish, in an indelible way, that high school is about setting the stage for what comes next, establishing the necessary linkages and natural supports in the community, teaching the skills and self advocacy to go on to college and beyond. It may be a tall order but we have at least 5 years to get there. To make the point I did 2 primary things at the meeting: one, I presented 2 input statements [Download Cole Fox's input_3607.doc , Download Cole Needs Accommodations.doc ]
and, two, was to present an ensemble of my daughter's doll furniture, showing a boy lying in bed watching television. The narration for this ensemble was that when my son gets out of high school he can not be the boy in the bed with nothing to do day after day but watch television. This unorthodox approach certainly got their attention, made the main point and created a memorable moment that no one in the room will soon forget.